Natural Takers

What gives ppl the right to feel that they don't have to give you anything, but you must give everything. I get the message that ppl become used taking w/o having to actually give anything. That is so selfish. When you are in any relationship, where you like the person, you do everything you can for them. You take them out, you spend ya bread, you always make sure they have and most importantly, you show a genuine care. Now when you play devil's advocate and you look at what they give you, you se that you receive, attitudes, hand out all the time, stubborness, selfishness and pure exasperation like you are the problem. Okay, then you fall aprt and we becomes I. What makes them think that when it is all over, that they still have the right to reap the benefits of what it was when they had you. They ask you to still do s**t for them and give them things like you dtill deal with them. When they left you. The crazy part in the end, all that they show you by still having their hand out is that they were taking you for nothing more than a giver. I'm so sick and tired of dealing with that b.s. What makes ppl not understand that ppl should not be used. If you are done with them, simply leave them alone. Don't act nice just so you can still get. Don't ask for s**t, get a no response and then say..."I really didn't want it, I just wanted to see what you were gonna say". YEAH RIGHT. Your a** just tight cause the answer was NO! LOL...Thanks for listening as usual.