My Last Mistake

I just knew that I had met a wonderful man. He was 33 yrs of age, had a legit job, looked pretty decent, had a lil whip (a hoopty, but it was his), he seemed to be a great dad and he was interested in my son and I. He was consistent with so many things. He called @ the same time each day, he came when he said he was coming (No matter how tired he was), he helped my son w/ his homework, wash dishes, cleaned out the house (even the fridge) and he laid me on my back ever so gently and he always paid when we went out or ordered in. The man even paid bills. People when I tell you I thought I hit the jackpot, someone must've had a hidden camera somewhere cause this nigga was a flux. He was MARRIED. He never once mentioned it. I saw it on his paystub (Yes, I was being nosey). It was in my house, so why the hell not. He wasn't just married, but this trifling azz had me thinking that I needed to help him go to court to start proceedings on a child support and visitation case w/ his baby mom's, BUT she was his wife as well. All he use to refer to her as was his "baby mother". Come to find out...he was already paying child support, he had been paying it for the past three mths prior to meeting me. Who the hell lies about some shyt like that...smdh! Ya'll think that's it...not by a long shot...this negro got some chick pregnant in Mass. right before meeting me. That GROWN ASS, who is 35 yrs of age w/ 3 daughters, woman begin hitting me up w/ personal messages on FB, saying only GOD knows. I'm sure you all are wondering what his azz had to say. Not a thing. He closed himself off from all communication for awhile. gave simple azz "I'm sorry's" and "I didn't know how to tell you cause I didn't want to lose you"! He told me that he was "married but seperated". If you're married but seperated, your tax filing status would state that and he had 3 dependents that he was filing for. What the hell do I look like "BoBo the clown" or "Booboo the fool"?. He used to also tell me that he lived w/ his cousin (who he says he always argued w/), whom I never met and that he often stayed by his grandmother's house. That's why he never took me to his house. I think that he lives w/ his wife and that's why he started doing "Disappearing Acts" on the wknds. He had to put in his time. All this crap took place in 3 to 4 mths. These dudez out here are simply amazing. I am So Sick and Tired of men feeling like they can pull the wool over our eyes. Thinking that we aren't good enough to know the truth nor smart enough to figure out when we are being lied to. When they caught, they throw all type of excuses into the air to help clear their heads...not ours. Where is he now? Who the hell knows. The chick in Mass should be about 5mths this month. So that dude has 1 failed marriage and 2 children, by 2 different woman. Damn shame. I told him to learn to wrap that shyt up...don't he want better for himself. Also, that Mass chick was only his for 6 mths, when he impregnated her. He's a real f-ing azz...I just had to let ppl know out there...that bad things DO happen to good ppl. I am a prime example of that